We left the US around 12:30 pm on Thursday, July 28th. Crossing over the international date line, we were in daylight the entire 12 and 1/2 hour flight. Sleep was near impossible. Our layover in Seoul was short, and we were excited to get to China.
We landed in China around 8 pm on July 29th. Jen, Haley, and Nate met us at the Beijing airport. We decided to spend the weekend there. That first night, we adults went to an Irish pub near the hotel. We tried Tsing Tao, a Chinese beer. It wasn't bad. It's hard to be 13 hours ahead of the U.S., though. Beijing has a population of 20 million people!
On Saturday, we went to the Great Wall at Badaling. There, we took the chair lift up to the wall. We walked for a couple hours. What an amazing experience!! Although I twisted my ankle, it was just so incredible to be there. It was a clear day, and we could see quite far. To get down, we took a luge. We ate lunch near the base of the wall. Chinese food is served family-style, and sanitary conditions seem to be optional. We saw a waitress actually catch a fish from their pond, cook it, and serve it to the table next to us - eyes and all.
We then returned to Beijing and went to Hao Hai (ho high). It is the only place left in Beijing where you can see the original alleyways and shops of old Beijing. We climbed up the drum tower and heard/saw a performance. The bell tower would signal time in the morning, and the drum tower was used to signal time in the afternoon and evening. From the drum tower, you could look out on the Forbidden City. We ended the evening at a restaurant where we ate Peking duck. We saw a variety show performance, which included acrobats, an opera singer, musicians, a dancer, a shadow show, and a mask guy. It was very entertaining.
July 31: The Forbidden City
The Forbidden City is where the emperors and empresses of the last three dynasties of China lived and entertained. Very few people were allowed inside the gates. Under the Ming and Qing, the city was divided into walled sections. The Forbidden City was originally built as the innermost of these sections. It was opened to more in 1911 after the last emperor was overthrown. It occupies 775,000 square feet, has 9,999 rooms, there is a moat on the north side, and the 4-mile wall is 33 feet high.
The city contains many halls and courtyards. The gardens consisted mostly of trees and rock formations. The Imperial Garden contains a pagoda atop of rocks, where the emperor and empress would walk up to and offer sacrifices during some holiday festival. Some of the trees were planted in the shape of Chinese characters. The halls were all named after virtues and blessings. We saw an exhibition on stone drums, on which emperors inscribed poems marking momentous occasions. We also saw the collection of imperial jewels, many from the time of Cixi. The city was very crowded, and it was hard to maneuver through the crowds of people with their umbrellas. The Chinese do not like to get burnt or tan, so they use whitening cream and umbrellas for shade.
We then went to Ti'anamen Square to look around. We ended up at a Tex-Mex place and then the Silk Market. Bartering took some practice, and the market was overstimulating. The salespeople are very aggressive. After buying some things, we drove the 2 1/2 hours to Tianjin.
Some observations/things I learned:
The Chinese can only own three properties their entire life. Usually, that counts their parents' and /or in-laws. So, companies like Cat are having a very hard time getting workers to move near their plants because for many this may be their final move allowed, and they don't like to leave their families.
The spitting is everywhere by everyone.
The staring is constant and unnerving (at first). They love to stare at Westerners and take our pictures. We have been recorded, asked to pose for pictures, and even followed. Twice, I was told I was beautiful. They apparently like the novelty of blue eyes.
Pushing is the course of action for everyone. They don't line up, and you learn quickly to push your way through.
The "squatters" are interesting, and many places do not have toilet paper.
There is much more leniency/freedom here than I expected. Although the government controls many things still, you just don't see complete regulation.
Kids start school at 7 and graduate at age 16. Colleges are not that hard to get into. They have both public and private schools.
The military is not conscripted. You can serve 2 -3 years to get a free education after.
There is a minimum wage and required insurance/benefits.
There are at least 56 practiced religions and over 100 dialects.
The Chinese drive at age 18, and there are far fewer rules of the road here. They drive using the same principle of pushing. They use horns frequently, and they do not stop for pedestrians. There are no car seat or even seat belt laws, per se.
Parents choose to place their kids in cultural activities. The government only mandates some athletes.
Virtually everyone has a job. You see very little homeless.
They don't have an illegal immigration problem; the policies into the country are far too strict. If you leave and get deported back to China, you are jailed and banned from ever leaving China again.
They do have capital punishment.
Soldiers march 108 paces a minute.
They still technically have a one-child policy, but it differs in various areas of China.
Babies are often seen bare-butted or wearing "slit pants." The parents and/or nannies are so subservient to the baby's needs, they anticipate when the child has to go to the bathroom.
Men retire at age 60, women at age 55. They have to; the government mandates it for them to be paid a pension and benefits. Employers must provide benefits by law.
August 1: We went to Old Town (thinking we were at Ancient Culture Street). The city of Tianjin is quickly developing. It has 10 million occupants, and it's the fastest growing city in China. Only Beijing and Shanghai have more people. Like those two cities, it has its own provincial status. The Haihe River runs through the city out to Dongjiang Bay and then to Bohai Sea. Every bridge that spans the river is different. After the Treaty of Nanjing (Tianjin), China opened to foreign countries. The area known as Five Avenue is where the foreign concessions where, each styled in that country's architecture. It is known for its history as the residences of many dignitaries and such. The buildings, for the most part, are very modern and unique. The city is a port, and industries abound (including nuclear plants). Zoning laws seem to not exist.
The staring is even more prevalent here than in Beijing. Many things here in China, however, are a facade. For example, they have recycling containers throughout the cities, but they don't officially recycle. Every house has heated floors, but the government controls when they are turned on and off (no house has a switch for them). It is such a mix of the new and old, but there is a show to the outside world and the reality that actually lies within. It is so interesting, and there is so much still to learn. Jen gave us an example: as a manager at Cat, she is a "boss." Employers/bosses speak at weddings about the work ethic and character of their employee. There is even a special seat reserved for the boss at the reception. Jen has been expected to do this, and it is dishonorable to decline. But, at the same time, the Chinese have found many of the requirements of their jobs for Western companies incomprehensible and will question such practices. It's all so interesting to hear about the cultural clashes experienced by Jen and those she works with.